To the Forgotten Love

Do I believe in everything happens for a reason? That what is meant to be will happen? I always seem to say yes when things are in my favour but if not, it always makes me question. You don't always recognize how hard it is to believe in those statements when let's say, you get in a terrible car accident or you lose your job or your mom passes or in my case, when you lose the one thing that made it hard to breathe and yet so easy to live. When you lose that feeling of pure serendipity and youth-fullness. When that thing which makes you feel so alive and invincable is taken away, it leaves you feeling so empty and almost dead. The more I try to force myself not to think about it, the more things start reminding me of it. Everything was perfect and it was everything I had ever wanted.. then fate had to step in and steal it from me. I have finally come to reality to know this wasn't just a bad dream, it really did happen but again the question still burns in my heart, why did it happen? I will always say that I am moved on and content with my life. I will say that it doesn't hurt anymore and that it doesn't matter. I will laugh and show no weakness to the subject and when people ask I will carry that smile on my face and yet the un-deniable lie in my heart when I say that I don't miss him.

One More Day

okay this song is called (above) and again to remind you, these songs are mostly from a while ago.

Don't let the words sink down deep in my heart, but let the things you said go away. Take away all my heartache and all my pain, just hold me closer as we stand in the rain.
~And let's just smile one more day and hold my hand one more day, oh won't you dance with me one more day? Just please love me one more day.
Don't let the wind come push us off course. Let the road keep going so we can drive, people say we're impossible but I believe. Just stay with me and that's all I need.
~So let's just smile one more day and hold my hand one more day. Oh won't you dance with me one more day? Just please love me one more day.
Don't give up on us now, we can make it. And don't you cradle my heart then just break it and don't take love for granted or it's gunna be gone. Please don't fight with your heart cause you'll always be wrong..
~So lets just smile one more day and hold my hand one more day. Won't you dance with me one more day? just please love me, please love me, love me.. just one more day.

Forever

Alright just a pre-warning, this song is not relavent to anything pertaining to my life now, I wrote it awhile ago but I just thought it might be fun to post some of my songs every now and then and if it's lame to write songs so beit.. ha but I choose not to say who they were written for. This one is called Forever.

I try not to think of the past.. I try not to think of him. I try to fill this emptiness with childish dreams, but my life still remains incomplete.
~Because my forever got severed and now I am dying inside because my only one, my darling, my everything, changed his mind.
Does he remember my love? And would he ever re-consider.. He said he wasn't good enough but perfection's never what I wanted. Would he realize if he knew..
~That my forever got severed and now I am dying inside because my only one, my darling, my everything, changed his mind.. oh who knew forever could be severed? And that I'd be broken this way? Because he looked right through me and took every piece of my heart..
Who knew forever could be severed.. And now I don't know who I am.

The Inner Strength

Sometimes individuals feel like they have hit a "wall" or they're at rock bottom or there is no chance of a victory. There are various examples of this occurance. One such may be that of a wayward person striving for forgiveness and begging for a second chance. They are sparce of hope and broken on the inside, yet no matter how much friends and family can try to help, they just don't understand what is happening inside. At the very last moment it's that small inner strength that pulls them out of despair.

This could also be reared to runners and that last lap. They can't simply stop and take a quick drink of gatorade. They don't have the option of a team mate to finish it for them or a friend to carry them. When they are savoring every ounce of oxygen that enters their body, and every part of their body is straining and in pain, it's those split seconds that a runner swears they'll never do this again. But then they draw some wondrous and powerful strength from within that pulls them across that line and in turn forget the hurt.

It may be a heartbreak, one that everyone views as not a big deal and possibly even an over-reaction yet to the individual, it's a literal feeling deep inside that you can feel something tearing away from you. Almost like a real part of you is taken away. And it is especially in this predicament that nothing or no-one can help. And whether it's the need to move on and forget or to let someone else into your heart, once again it is that amazing and unique power from within that heals them.

So no matter the situation, whatever or whoever it is that is making you hurt, don't let it become big enough that it can make you give up on yourself. You decide when you want to give up, or stop running, or stop loving, or stop dreaming, or stop trying, or stop believing in yourself. When everything else falls apart and when everyone else fails you, you still have that inner strength, it's you. Use it.

What is a Best Friend?

The lucky ones have six to ten really good friends and the even luckier ones have two to four best friends. At least to most females, the title "best friend" holds great power. She is the one you want to tell first when you recieve the best of news, she is the only one you feel comfortable enough to be around without any makeup whatsoever, grungy clothes, and unshowered. She is the one who wants to beat the crap out of any boy who has ever made you feel any less amazing or beautiful than you are. She is also the one that refrains from saying told you so when she knew that guy was no good and also the one who lets you get mascara all over her lap while you cry your heart out. She is the one who will go get ice-cream with you on demand. She is the only one who you know you can call at 2am because although half-asleep she will listen to every word you have to say. She is the one who knows every little thing about you and sometimes knows you better than you do. She is the one who unfailingly puts herself last and makes certain you are happy. She is the one who graciously lends you extra money when you run out at the store and then never lets you pay her back. She is the one who trusts you enough to tell you anything and to always take your advice. She is the one who accepts you when you don't even know who you are anymore. She is the one who carries you when you can't walk on your own. She is slow to anger and quick to forgive. She knows what's best. She is the one who will be your maid of honor. And although she is the one you know best, she still remains the hardest to get any presents for just because you want to get one so perfect. She is the one who makes you wonder everyday how you got so lucky to get such an amazing best friend and also the one who makes you thank God everyday for her and begging him to never take her away because you would be nothing without her. I believe that although life will happen and people change, that one person will always remain your true best friend. On the contrary, I truly believe that when you meet a guy who can take out the S in all the above statements and have it still apply that he is the one, your prince charming. He will never hurt you or leave you. He will treat you like a princess and love you forever. Seems like a lot, but that's my dream. Until then though, thank you Heather, for being my best friend.